It's been a while since we updated the blog and I have had quit a few people ask, so as the year comes to an end and I have had time to reflect on everything, now seems like a great time for an update.
How is Sam?
Sam is still in PT. While he is feeling stronger there is still a long way to go, and much frustration.
He had some testing done that showed he has permanent paralysis in his right arm.
Those that know Sam, know that this is a tough one. He can't throw, raise his arm, or even open a jar easily. He is learning to use his left arm more and more.
We thought he might be able to have a surgery to use part of his bicep on his triceps. He found out that he was not a candidate for this surgery.
How is his pain?
He still hurts ALL.THE.TIME. He will tell you his arm and chest feels like it is constantly asleep and throbbing. Sleeping is still an issue for Sam. He has come off of all his pain meds which has made sleeping harder but felt like it was time to be drug free.
His job is working out very well. He is finding his new place at his company and we are SO GRATEFUL for the extra effort they have put forward for our family.
Are we back to normal?
No, we aren't. I tell people we have a new normal. We went swimming as a family last weekend and Sam discovered he can no longer swim. This was very hard for Sam and I.
Biking, swimming, hiking and so much more is what we love to do as a family. So we are going to have find a NEW normal. He discovered he can still golf!! YAY!!!
With all the hard stuff come all the BLESSINGS.
He has a job who knows how valuable he is. We had a chance to go to Hawaii together in May. It was our first trip just the 2 of us since our honeymoon 12 years ago. He was able to swim for miles all over the ocean. What a huge blessing he got to go do that before he lost his ability to not do it again. We have seen the love of family and friends that we could never have imagined. Our kids have learned the value of family, time and appreciating what we have. Most of all we got our dad and husband with us on Christmas. When I think back to them "reviving" Sam in that ICU room just 3 months ago, I realize this could have been a different Christmas for us. We are SO grateful for the birth and life of our Savior and our Heavenly Father who made it possible for all things to be whole. For the fact that my family can be together.
WISHING YOU ALL A VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
Eastman Kids 2013
Off to Hawaii 2013
Our first Triathlon together!!
THANK YOU TO ALL!!!!
